I’ve come to realize something about life and especially about creativity…that completely changed how I move, create, and even think. It’s simple, but heavy once you sit with it “perception controls reality.”
Now, I know that sounds like something you’d see printed on a motivational poster, but it’s much deeper than that. As an artist, this phrase holds a kind of weight that can make or break your creative journey. It’s not just about what’s real, it’s about how things appear, how they’re felt, and how people receive them.
That’s where our power
As artists, we are interpreters of reality. We see things differently…the colors in a cloudy day, the emotion in silence, the poetry in pain. But more importantly, we show others what we see. That means, like it or not, we have the ability to shape perception.
When people see your work, your brand, or even just the way you carry yourself, they’re forming a perception, and that perception becomes their reality.
Think about that for a second.
You could be the most talented person in the room, but if your work, your energy, or your presence doesn’t communicate that, people might not perceive you that way. And if they don’t perceive it, it doesn’t exist… at least, not in their reality… that’s “The Artist’s Responsibility”
That’s why I say: perception is not just part of the game…it is the game.
In Your Personal Life Perception starts within. How do you see yourself? Because here’s the truth: the way you perceive your own potential, your worth, and your future literally shapes what’s possible for you. If you believe you’re not ready, not talented enough, or not deserving, your actions will mirror that belief.
On the other hand, if you carry yourself with the quiet confidence that you’re becoming who you’re meant to be, even if you’re not there yet…that energy starts to shift your world. People respond differently. Opportunities appear. Doors that were closed begin to open, because your reality is beginning to match the perception you’ve created for yourself.
That’s the secret most people miss: you can’t wait for the world to validate you before you move. You have to perceive yourself as valuable first, and the world will eventually catch up.
Let’s talk about this in the context of your creative business, because this is where it really starts to show its power.
Every successful creative brand is built on perception. Look at your favorite filmmakers, photographers, designers, or musicians. Their success didn’t start with popularity, it started with presentation. The way they framed their ideas, the way they told their stories, the consistency in their image, their tone, their message.
That’s perception at work.
If people perceive your work as valuable, exclusive, intentional, or inspiring, that’s the reality they’ll live in when they experience your brand. You’re not lying, you’re designing. You’re crafting how people feel when they encounter what you do.
And when that perception aligns with authenticity and effort… that’s when your creative career starts to shift from a hobby to something sustainable In Business and Creativity.
Here’s what I’ve learned through trial, error, and plenty of late night reflections: your reality will always follow the story you tell yourself and others.
If you walk into every opportunity knowing you belong there, you’ll start to see proof of that belief in small ways, a message from someone who believes in you, a sale that comes out of nowhere, a new connection that opens a door.
That’s perception turning into reality.
But if you walk into every room doubting yourself, questioning your value, or fearing rejection…that perception also becomes real. It’s not magic; it’s alignment. What you put out will always find a way to return to you.
That’s why perception isn’t something to take lightly, it’s the quiet force behind every form of success and most importantly The Secret to Your Success.
So I challenge you to take inventory of how you show up, both online and offline. I call this “A Perspective Shift” Ask yourself:
- How do people perceive my work?
- How do they perceive me?
- Does that align with who I truly am and what I’m trying to build?
And most importantly, how do I perceive myself right now?
If those answers don’t align, then it’s time to adjust the lens
Just like a camera, you sometimes have to refocus to get the clarity you need.
Let’s Work on It Together
If this message resonated with you, if you feel like you’re in that in between space of knowing you’re capable of more but not sure how to align your perception with your reality…I want to help you bridge that gap.
Join me for a 1:1 session where we’ll work on shifting your creative mindset, refining your presentation, and designing the perception that matches the person you’re becoming.
Because when you truly understand that perception controls reality, you stop chasing opportunities, and start creating them.
Your next level isn’t far away. You just have to see it first.
Hope this helps,
-B
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