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Explanations, Explain, Explaining.
We’ve gotten way too comfortable explaining ourselves, especially when no one asked. Not the necessary kind, but the kind where we turn every decision into a backstory just to be understood. But here’s the truth: not everything needs a breakdown. Sometimes, “this is what I need” is enough. This post explores why we over explain,…
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So a Brand Reached Out… Now What?
When brands start sliding into your DMs or inbox, it can feel like you’ve finally made it, but not every opportunity is what it seems. In this blog post, I break down how to spot legit collabs vs. scams, what an influencer content package really is, and how to price your work with confidence. It’s…
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Your Boos Mean Nothing to Me, Here’s Why
I’m sitting in the back seat, riding through unfamiliar states, and that one Rick and Morty quote hit me like a punchline to my own thoughts: “Your boos mean nothing to me. I’ve seen what makes you cheer.” This post is about shaking off the weight of outside opinions and trusting your own rhythm. If…
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When You Begin to See Everything, You Start to Belong Nowhere
The more I begin to see, truly see, the less I feel like I belong anywhere. There’s a loneliness that comes with awareness, with noticing the patterns, the contradictions, the quiet cruelty of the world. This isn’t sorrow speaking, it’s observation. And maybe, just maybe, there’s something to learn from standing at the edge of…
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30 on, 10 off
30 On, 10 Off” isn’t just a productivity hack, it’s how I wrestle focus back from distraction. With ADHD and a restless creative mind, I needed structure without rigidity. This rhythm, 30 minutes of deep work followed by 10 minutes of total freedom, gave me that. It’s simple, it’s sustainable, and it’s helped me write…
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END OF AN ERA
A necessary pause, for now. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is step back, breathe, and begin again.
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Men’s Mental Health Month
Men’s Mental Health Month often gets overshadowed, but for those of us living the experience, it’s not a trend, it’s survival. As a neurodivergent man who’s fought the quiet war of mental illness since childhood, I’m sharing what it feels like behind the silence, the pressure, and the misunderstanding. This post isn’t polished perfection, it’s…
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MID-YEAR CHECK-IN: You Good?
Your Mid-Year Check-In It’s halftime. June just whispered, “Wake up,” and July is around the corner yelling, “You still in the game or nah?” This is your friendly nudge to pause, take a breath, and check in with yourself. Revisit those goals you scribbled down back in January, have they grown legs or collected dust?…
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AI… Helps
AI didn’t replace me—it assisted me. As a creator with ADHD, it’s become the super assistant I didn’t know I needed.
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Take the Picture—It’ll Definitely Last Longer
Life moves fast—sometimes too fast. But a photo? A video? That’s time travel in disguise.
